The way I look at it = It doesn't matter to me if the people in my life are prepared or not. I know that when the time comes, I need them far more than they need me. I know it sounds contrary to what many like to proclaim "don't come to my house unless you bring your preps with you" - however, hard times is a team sport. And its a contact sport. You/We will need each other and if I happen to be the one thinking ahead, then I happen to be the one thinking ahead.
This does not mean I surround my family with know-nothing knuckleheads, but there are in-laws, family members, friends who are family who might not be as far along as my family is, but have tremendous value. We'll need each other far more than I need to "have been right". I prep rifles, kit, dry goods, sundries, etc knowing that the number of people in my household will double/triple and we'll need them all to put the homestead, protect ourselves, and put the pieces back together.